Happy Birthday!

This year, Henry's birthday fell on a Saturday, so we were able to have his party on his actual birthday.  It couldn't have been a better day.  We had a circus-themed bash and family and friends came to celebrate. Seriously, we all felt so loved and everyone made Henry feel so special.  It really was one of my favorite days ever.  There was a small ice storm that moved across the state on Friday, but we didn't get much.  My sister and aunt and uncle had to deal with it, as did my other aunt and uncle, but luckily everyone made it safely and we were able to celebrate in style. 

We had a circus theme and Henry enjoyed playing with his friends and cousins and eating pizza.  It meant so, so much to have everyone there. I really can't say that enough.  He is one blessed little guy and so are we.  His cousin even sang him a special happy birthday song - we have it on video - it was precious!  He wasn't very into eating his cupcake in the moment...he sat there happily while everyone sang to him (and only tried to grab the flame on his candle once!), but when it came time to dig into the cupcake, he had a little meltdown.  I honestly don't think he knew what to do with such a big piece of food.  Later that night at dinner, I gave him another cupcake and this time I cut it up...he loved it!  You have to cake on your birthday! 

Anyways, I simply cannot express how wonderful the day was.  I have a few pictures and am hoping to get more.  I was so busy it was hard to fully capture everything, but it was the perfect way to celebrate our little guy and we couldn't have asked for more!
I tried to take a picture at 8:40am - the time he was born.  I was a few minutes late, but close enough!
The circus came to town!

Balloons?  Someone got me balloons? 
(Seriously, this was one of his favorite things from his party.)

Playing with my friends.

All decked out and eating pizza and fruit.

The food table - and two very cute cousins.

The birthday cupcake.

Getting into the cupcake later on that evening.

Post-celebration, post-bath, play time with my new toys.
 
Happy, happy birthday, Henry!  It was the sweetest one yet and I know they'll only get better from here!!


One Whole Year

We made it.  Henry made it.  We officially have a one-year-old now...no longer a little baby.  Wow.  It was a good year.  A hard year.  A life-changing year.  A teaching and learning year.  An amazing year.  A love-filled year.  A year of hard lessons.  A year of learning to be selfless.  An INCREDIBLE year.  Sometimes, it feels so much longer than 365 days - I barely remember our life before - but also it has gone by so quickly.  People tell you time flies when you have children and they weren't kidding.  One year ago we had a tiny cuddly newborn who couldn't get enough to eat.  Now we have a tall (80th percentile), always-on-the-move, almost-toddler (who still can barely get enough to eat).  How does that happen?

Henry had his one-year-old check up on Monday.  As I mentioned, he's still very tall (30.75 inches - 80th percentile) and lean (21 lb 14 oz - 60th percentile).  He also still has an extra large noggin, but we're pretty sure he gets that from his dad :) Overall the appointment was fine, but he had to get three shots and a finger prick.  Ugh.  I know it is only going to get worse, but the poor little guy screamed and screamed.  And again, I can tell this week that the shots have knocked him out of kilter a little bit.  They just make him grumpy and more fussy than usual.  At least I know what to expect now. 

At one year, Henry is a charmer.  He's got the best giggle that is my absolute most favorite sound in the world.  He's still an overall happy guy who is pretty amiable to most situations (unless he's tired) and he loves to be busy and have action going on around him.  He can clap his hands when you ask (or when music comes on), and he loves to point at everything.  He also babbles, constantly.  Sometimes it sounds like he's talking, other times it sounds like he's yelling, and sometimes it sounds like he's singing.  So sweet.  He's saying "dada" and "dad" really well now.  He's also good at "bye-bye" and "uh-oh" (although he's still saying "uh-uh" a lot - he's just starting to get the hang of the "oh" sound).  "Mama" comes out every now and then, especially when he's tired or mad, and I'm pretty sure he says, "ball."  He also understands what you're saying.  I can ask him to point to his balloons (left over from his birthday party) or to find his ball and he knows exactly what to do.  He also understand "no,"  but doesn't always listen...we're working on that! 

He's a fast crawler - when he sees something he wants or that he knows he shouldn't have, he takes off! Also, just last week he's started pushing the walking toys around.  It's fun to watch him do this, but it has also really shown us a strong part of his personality that I am pretty sure he gets from me...perfectionism.  I am a lot better than I used to be, but if I can't do something well, I don't want to do it at all..it's a double-edge sword really...not an entirely bad characteristic, but one that needs to be tempered, because let's face it, we can't all be perfect or excellent at all things all the time.  Anyways, we've seen this in Henry before, but with the walking toys it has really come out.  As soon as he hits a wall or road block he melts down.  Even if I am right there to help him turn around and walk back the other way.  Doesn't matter.  Intense melt down of frustration.  It has gotten so bad that after a few rounds, I have to take the toy away and distract him with something else.  We're trying to teach him to turn it himself and it won't be long before he can do that, but whew...poor little guy...you'd think the world ends each time he hits something. 

There's so much more to say about this past year.  One post can never sum it up, but it must for now.  Also, we had the most excellent first birthday party for the babe, but I'll leave that to its own post.  Here's to year two!
This is Henry's new favorite game - he lays down and pretends to sleep, then I say, "Wake up!" and he pops up and grins.  It is precious.  (Although, I think he actually was a sleepy baby in this pic.)

Almost a year...

Exactly one year ago today, I wrote this post. Crazy, isn't it?  We had reached that point in our pregnancy where he could come at any time, yet might not come for another couple of weeks.  At the time that I wrote that, I had made no progress from a labor standpoint and there were no indications that just 48 hours later he would be here.  I love Henry's birth story.  I love that is was so perfect and relatively calm and fast, and that he came two weeks "early" even though he came almost exactly on what I thought his original due date was.   I know that many people don't have that experience.  I hope that all our children will arrive like that, but I know that there are no guarantees and that the next time it will likely be completely different.  I do enjoy remembering though. 

As we go into this weekend with his big 1st birthday celebration Saturday, it is fun to take these next couple of days and think about this time last year and how I was feeling and how very different life was.  I have two friends who are at this same exact point in their pregnancies now.  Each day we anxiously await news, knowing that it could come at any time, but might not come just yet.  It is such a time of anticipation - standing on a precipice of such big change, wanting it just to happen already, but trusting God's sovereignty and perfect plan and knowing the timing will be perfect, whenever it is.  We are so blessed.  I can't wait to celebrate Henry's one-year on Saturday with all of our family and friends.  Pray it doesn't snow (there's a small chance), so that everyone can get here. Regardless, we continue to be so thankful for our little guy and the true treasure that he is.
It's "spirit week" at preschool this week.  Tuesday was hat day.

Ridiculously Cute

Let's just have a post with some super-cute, super-fun pictures of our almost one-year-old, shall we? 

Seriously, what is cuter than a babe asleep with his hiney up in the air?

I think this is his rebellion again having to ride backwards in the car...our entire trip through the grocery store he rode turned around like this in the basket. 

That face gets me every time.  

Post-bath cuteness.  He still loves his bath, but isn't crazy about getting dried off and dressed afterwards.  This was a particularly good day.  

Anything to keep him occupied and sitting (somewhat) still...even his brush will do!
So yes, our little munchkin turns one a week from tomorrow.  I am pretty excited about his party and to celebrate his first year.  I've got some good ideas - our dining room table is currently covered with party items/crafts - and our family and friends are coming to shower their love on the babe.  It doesn't get much better than that.  I know he won't remember it, but I do hope he enjoys it!

In Happier News...

...our little guy is a pure delight these days!  His newest thing is dancing and clapping his hands.  A lot of his toys make music and he'll crawl over to one, press the button to make it sing, then sit up, look at me and start "dancing."  His dancing involves swinging his arms back and forth and turning at his hips while grinning.  Then he'll "clap" his hands, which basically means he puts them together and takes them apart, very gently.  It is adorable.  I love it.  He is also always on the move.  He does not sit still.  He's definitely cruising now...he'll make his way all along the coffee table and all around his crib.  He's still refusing the sippy cup, but we're down to 2-3 bottles a day (one of which is whole milk), so improvements are happening.  Lucky for him, I am relentless in the sippy cup pursuit and we'll find one that works one of these days!  He did take a few sips of water out of a regular cup and he'll chew on the straw of one of his sippy cups, so at least that's something, right?  I'm reaching here, I know.  It's the optimist in me, I can't help it.

Anyways, I just couldn't leave that hive post as the last thing up here.  I needed something a little more cheerful.  We're two weeks away from his first birthday - which is nuts.  I am hoping he stays well and can really enjoy the day.  I've decided to go with a circus theme.  Hopefully, the vision in my head will translate into real life.  I can't wait to celebrate him and this crazy year.  He really is the best!

Hives

Well, our new year started out with a bang.  But not the good kind of bang.  Remind me to never ever complain about a Christmas cold again.  That was nothing compared to what we found New Year's Day.  In fact, I am just now at a point where I can really write about everything.  I needed this entire week to feel normal again...to be confident that our little guy really was feeling better and that things were finally back to normal.

We work up New Year's Day to this:
Hives.
Hives.  Everywhere.  From head to toe.  His poor little eye was practically swollen shut and he didn't look like himself. He had slept great though and was playing in his Pack 'n Play that morning before I went in and got him.  It took me completely by surprise.  Oh, and did I mention we were at Bald Head?  On an island?  An island that is only accessible by ferry?  Right.  Thankfully, as bad as he looked, he was not having any trouble breathing.  We knew it must be an allergic reaction to something, but had no idea what.  I hadn't fed him anything out of the ordinary and all of his clothes/linens, etc were things we had brought from home. It didn't matter.  We knew we needed to take our little guy to an emergency room...and there isn't one on the island.  So literally, in less than 30 minutes, we got up, put on clothes, fed Fisher, packed Henry's diaper bag, and headed out to catch the ferry off the island.  We left Fisher and everything else at the beach house.  What else were we going to do?  It was so awkward having to take Henry on the ferry looking like that.  Of course everyone is staring and you feel like the worst parent in the world.  We did get a few sympathetic comments from other mothers who shared their stories of times that one of their children had a similar reaction, but for the most part, we just had to sit there nervously, holding our sweet boy and praying things wouldn't get worse for him. We actually debated calling an ambulance and having them meet us at the ferry landing, but he wasn't having any trouble breathing and seemed to be doing ok despite all appearances so we decided against it.  In the end, I am glad we did.

We made it off the ferry and to the little hospital in Southport.  Thankfully, it is just a few minutes up the road from the ferry landing, and there was no one else in the ER, so they took us almost immediately.  The nurse agreed that it as most certainly an allergic reaction and then asked me if he was taking any antibiotics.  Turns out that antibiotics are the #1 thing that causes reactions like this in children under 1 (according to her, anyways).  Well, he'd been taking amoxicillin for six days at this point for the aforementioned ear infection he contracted over Christmas.  No more amoxicillin for our little man.  No more of any drug with "cillin" in fact. Even though he'd had it once before with no problems, apparently it can build up in your system and when your body hits a certain threshold, it just reacts.  Also turns out that the husband is allergic to amoxicillin too. Good to know.

His breathing was good, he wasn't running a fever and his oxygen saturation levels in his body were good, so we were very very thankful for all of that.  They gave him a dose of baby Prenedsone and Benedryl, and then we had to wait.  The nurses, PA, and doctor were all super nice and the little room we were in had a TV, so that helped pass the time.  Poor Henry was tired, but wouldn't sleep and just clearly didn't feel well, so it was a long couple of hours, but we managed.
In the hospital in Southport.
They'd come in and check on us every little bit, but they really wanted to see the medicine working before they released us.  I was glad for that.  As we were waiting, Matt made arrangements for his mom to start driving from home to meet us halfway.  Matt still had to go back to the island to clean, pack up all of our stuff and get Fisher.  He wanted Henry and I to get home as soon as possible.
Finally fell asleep on dad.
We were finally released and given two prescriptions for the Prenedsone and Benedryl.  I've never been so glad to make it back home.  Henry did perk up a little and play with his toys that afternoon, but he still looked so bad.  A visit to our pediatrician the next morning confirmed that it was likely an allergic reaction to amoxicillin and he agreed that we stick with the medicines the ER gave us.
He didn't even look like himself, the hives and swelling were so bad.
Oh, our little guy was miserable the next few days.  Wednesday night was a terrible night.  He couldn't sleep - I really think the Benedryl made him jumpy and antsy.  Also, his legs were twitching...scared me a lot.  He'd start to fall asleep and then his leg would twitch and he'd wake himself up.  We spent the night in the rocking chair, him laying on my chest, waking and sleeping.  It was awful.  Thursday morning his face looked better, but his hands and feet were extremely swollen.  The hives had settled there and it wasn't pretty...or comfortable for him.  He also started itching.  Poor little thing.  It was awful.  It's so terrible to see  him like that and not be able to do anything more for him.
Breaks my heart.
I took him back to the doctor on Thursday morning because we'd had such a bad night. Unfortunately, our normal doctor was on-call at the hospital, so we had to see someone different.  He basically told me just to be patient and keep going with what we were doing.  That wasn't really what I wanted to hear, but he was probably right.  I did cut back on the doses of Benedryl I was giving him though.  I know it makes most people sleepy, but I was quite certain it was having the opposite effect on Henry.

Finally, Friday afternoon, I began to see noticeable improvement.
Improvement, finally!
Thankfully, things continued to get better and he had a good day Saturday and a great day Sunday.
Looking like my old self again!
Just thinking back through all of it and looking at these pictures breaks my heart all over again for him.   In the grand scheme of things it really did "look worse than it was," and I am very thankful that it never affected his breathing.  I can't even begin to imagine that.  It really wasn't a worst-case scenario by a long shot, but it sure was the hardest thing we've been through and one of the scariest.  You'd never know he was sick now though...he's back to his normal self, playing, laughing and moving ALL OVER THE PLACE.  Our boy does not sit still.  I'm just glad we're on the other side of it all.  There will be no more "cillin" drugs in his future, that's for sure!